We’re headed into the middle of January and according to statistics, most of those who’ve made goals for 2021 have already failed. Yikes! But, we get it:
For most of us, a new year means a fresh start, and we try to capitalize on that by setting New Year’s resolutions, often in the form of goals like “Lose weight.” or “Spend more time with family and friends.” or “Read through the entire Bible this year.”
Setting goals for the new year is common… Unfortunately failure to follow through on those goals is just as common. So, if you’re like the majority of people- and you’ve already hit your mid-January slump: Let me suggest that this new year, you resolve to NOT set goals. Instead, build systems that move you towards your values. I promise you’ll get better results.
Get Rid of Goals Once and For All
First of all, this difference between “goals and systems” is well explained by James Clear in his book, Atomic Habits he says, “I began to realize that my results had very little to do with the goals I set and nearly everything to do with the systems I followed. Goals are about the results you want to achieve. Systems are about the processes that lead to those results. If you want better results, then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead.”
Another author and book that promotes systems over goals is How To Fail At Almost Everything and Still Win Big by Scott Adams. Adams is even more blunt when he writes, “Goals are for losers.”
He’s not being mean, he’s making the point that goal-oriented people exist in a state of near continuous failure that they hope will be temporary. This is because a goal is about achieving something specific at some point in the future.
How Systems Work
For instance, let’s say your goal is to lose 30 pounds. Well, as of now you haven’t done it. At this point, you’ve failed to meet your goal even though one day you hope you’ll achieve it. Day after day you step on the scale only to find you still haven’t achieved your goal. What a loser! Even if you’re shedding pounds and moving in the right direction, discouragement can still start to wear on you.
A system, on the other hand, means you can start achieving immediately. It is something you do on a regular basis that increases your odds of success in the long run. Systems are for winners because every day you live by your system, is a success!
Take the example of reading the Bible. Let’s say that instead of setting a goal to read through the entire Bible in a year, you decide to create a system to start each day by reading 4 chapters of the Bible.
You do some math and figure out it’s going to take 15-20 minutes a day to read that amount. You start getting up 30 minutes earlier each day so you have plenty of time to read.
Meanwhile you also start going to bed 30 minutes earlier so you still get enough sleep. Not a big deal since most nights you realize you’re simply scrolling through social media or watching YouTube videos before going to bed anyway. You decide going to bed a little earlier so you can rise a little earlier is a better use of your time.
You also build in accountability by deciding you won’t eat until you read. No Bible, no breakfast. This motivates you to follow through on your system and helps you remember to read each day.
The Success of Systems
See the difference? If your goal is to read the entire Bible in a year, your BEST case scenario is that you accomplish that ONE time a year from now. That’s a lot to ask!
But, if your system is to read 4 chapters of the Bible each morning, every day can be a success.
Oh, and sticking with this system means that in less than a year, you will have read through the entire Bible! So remember, we don’t rise to our goals, we fall to the level of our systems.
So, what changes do you want to see in your life in 2021? What do you think of this idea of making system changes rather than making goals? We’d love to hear what the Lord has put on your heart for 2021!