Discouragement Does Not Discriminate

Discouragement Does Not Discriminate, a real-life story of working through a period of discouragement with a fellow sister in Christ.

by Abigail Wilson | 3 min read

Recently I found myself in an “argument” with a fellow sister in Christ. She was going through some pretty serious discouragement and hardship and I was trying to encourage her heart. She insisted, however, that her situation was definitely worse than any I could have gone through, so how could I possibly know how she felt?

We both laughed through our tears. We knew that she was both wrong and right. 

Discouragement might just be the most universal feeling of the followers of Jesus who chose to get up and obey Him each day. 

“Are we doing this right?”  “Is this worth it?”  “Am I laboring in vain?” 

Today I answer all our discouragments-both past, present and future with these thoughts: 

If You’ve Felt Like Crying…

So today’s “Harvest Diaries” is for you, dear believer, if you are feeling discouraged in the calling that the Lord has given you. Join me as I share with you what got me through my latest bout of discouragement. For whatever your particular corner of the harvest may be, I’ve been around long enough to know you’ve probably faced some disappointment and discouragement there. So, let us first be reminded that we were called into this world and we are promised that it will not be easy, 1and then let’s hopefully come out of this with a little more encouragement than just knowing it’ll be rough. Ha!

A Reminder About Fruit
Firstly, in the midst of my great sadness and mourning over what we’d lost (or maybe never had?) I had to face the fact that the “fruit of my labor” is actually not promised to me in necessarily the “way” or the “when” that I see fit. I had made an idol out of our successes and forgotten just where, or rather, who, they come from.2

I was struck by the question, “If we are willing to be sent to our deaths, shouldn’t we also be willing to ‘waste’ our life for the sake of His calling?” The answer should be yes. So, while we’d rightfully spent so much time trying to be ‘smart’ in our ministry, the bottom line was we may do everything ‘right’ and the Lord may just want our life as His sacrifice. And that should be enough for us. Or at the very least we should know that what the Lord sees as success is often very different from our worldly view of it! 3

The Help of the Saints

But next, we called our trusted elders and poured out our woes. We knew that this was still an important time to examine our own hearts and check to see if there was any other hurtful way in us. 4 When we face these times of discouragement it is so helpful to rely on the Body of Christ to give wisdom and comfort, especially those who have paved the way before us. We are not called to this work alone! We were not disappointed and we were both instructed and encouraged in those bittersweet times. I am SO thankful for our church family.

Where else can we go?
We also doubled down on our prayer and fasting. Just as we turned to our brothers and sisters in Christ, we most importantly had to cling to the cloak of our King. I truly felt like one of the disciples, confessing, “Where else could we go?”  and in a way isn’t that the greatest gift we can give the Lord? To stand with Him even when things are hard and seem impossible? When faced with discouragement it does the heart great good to remember that even when everything is stripped away the cross still stands.

That time of prayer and fasting also helped us because it brought us back to what we had seen in the light. We are all called to believe in the darkness what we have seen in the light. 5
And prayer and fasting facilitated the reminder that we needed to go back to instruction that the Lord had given us in the past, and that He still had for us – even when it gets hard!

From the Valley to the Hills
I’ll finish this confession by saying that since this time of deep discouragement our ministry has been busier and seemingly more productive than ever! It reminds me that none of our successes or failures are truly ours. They’ve already been laid down and covered by the Sacrifice of Jesus. The valleys often go on longer than this particular one has (I have proof of that from past experiences in the valley places!) but I am thankful that the Lord has a season for everything! If you, too, find yourself in a valley place, be comforted by the many saints (unsung and unnamed) who have gone before.

Abigail is passionate about encouraging and equipping anyone who wants to see their friends, family, and the check-out girl at the local grocery store, have a personal relationship with Jesus. Her first book, The Day Between: A Memoir of Miracles is available on Amazon. You can read even more about her life as a mom and in ministry over at her blog. She lives with her family in San Antonio, TX.

  1. Acts 14:22
  2. 2 Cor 9:10
  3. 1 Samuel 16:7
  4. Psalms 139:23
  5. Isaiah 50:10

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